我在 Ubuntu 20.04 机器上运行 MySQL。我正在尝试使用外部连接连接到它，但遇到错误 111（无法连接到“x.x.x.x”上的 MySQL 服务器）。我知道这应该是拒绝，我发现其他线程说要评论（或更改）/etc/mysql/mysql.conf.d 中的绑定地址行，但是这样做对我没有任何影响。我不知道我在这里错过了什么。我曾尝试吸引新用户并再试一次，但我认为这无助于解决问题，因为这是直接拒绝连接。
这是我的完整/etc/mysql/mysql.conf.d：
#
# The MySQL database server configuration file.
#
# One can use all long options that the program supports.
# Run program with --help to get a list of available options and with
# --print-defaults to see which it would actually understand and use.
#
# For explanations see
# http://dev.mysql.com/doc/mysql/en/server-system-variables.html
# Here is entries for some specific programs
# The following values assume you have at least 32M ram
[mysqld]
#
# * Basic Settings
#
user = mysql
pid-file = /var/run/mysqld/mysqld.pid
socket = /var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock
port = 3306
datadir = /var/lib/mysql
# If MySQL is running as a replication slave, this should be
# changed. Ref https://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/8.0/en/server-system-variables.html#sysvar_tmpdir
# tmpdir = /tmp
#
# Instead of skip-networking the default is now to listen only on
# localhost which is more compatible and is not less secure.
# bind-address = 0.0.0.0
#
# * Fine Tuning
#
key_buffer_size = 16M
# max_allowed_packet = 64M
# thread_stack = 256K
# thread_cache_size = -1
# This replaces the startup script and checks MyISAM tables if needed
# the first time they are touched
myisam-recover-options = BACKUP
# max_connections = 151
# table_open_cache = 4000
#
# * Logging and Replication
#
# Both location gets rotated by the cronjob.
#
# Log all queries
# Be aware that this log type is a performance killer.
# general_log_file = /var/log/mysql/query.log
# general_log = 1
#
# Error log - should be very few entries.
#
log_error = /var/log/mysql/error.log
#
# Here you can see queries with especially long duration
# slow_query_log = 1
# slow_query_log_file = /var/log/mysql/mysql-slow.log
# long_query_time = 2
# log-queries-not-using-indexes
#
# The following can be used as easy to replay backup logs or for replication.
# note: if you are setting up a replication slave, see README.Debian about
# other settings you may need to change.
# server-id = 1
# log_bin = /var/log/mysql/mysql-bin.log
# binlog_expire_logs_seconds = 2592000
max_binlog_size = 100M
# binlog_do_db = include_database_name
# binlog_ignore_db = include_database_name
如您所见，不仅 bind-address 被注释掉了，而且在这样做之前我还尝试将其设置为 0.0.0.0。还有什么我可以检查的吗？非常感谢任何帮助。