无法使用javascript / jquery选择选项

Question

我想在js代码的帮助下选择一个特定的选项。

var selectElement = jQuery('[name="order_status"]').children();
console.log(selectElement);
jQuery(selectElement).each(function(index, item) {
  var match = item.attributes.value.nodeValue;
  if (progress === match) {
    alert(match);
    selectElement.innerHTML = progress;
    //jQuery(this).empty().append(html);
  }
});

<select name="order_status" class="select custom-select">
  <option value="In Progress">In Progress</option>
  <option value="Completed">Completed</option>
  <option value="Rejected">Rejected</option>
</select>

<script src="https://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/jquery/2.1.1/jquery.min.js"></script>